I have sought to make Christmas more meaningful with our family using various traditions that we have incorporated in our lives along our journey. Last year, we started using our stockings to write blessings. I heard of this idea on a Yahoo group I was on and here is a blog post that shares more about such an idea:
Christmas Stocking Stuffers ~ We kept our messages from last year and I hope to make scrapbook-type pages out of each year's messages or binders for our little ones
(and adults) to keep. It takes the focus off of "self" throughout the season, I think. It also gives us an opportunity to say the things we forget throughout the year and reminds us to do these types of things more frequently in our daily lives.
Hubbards Cupboard also has a list of Christmas crafts that can be done with children that might be fun to put into a Christmas theme week.